Who Are You Waiting For?

Of all the words ever written or spoken, some of the most influential in shaping human history and thought are to be found in the Ten Commandments. When we think of the Ten Commandments, usually three words spring to mind: “Thou Shalt NOT.” I don’t know about you but whenever I’m told I can’t do something I get very curious about the thing I’m not supposed to do! So, ironically, we seem to be drawn to the negatives in our lives, toward those things we’re not supposed to do because they bring more negative consequences than positive ones into our lives.

I think the reason for this is that so few of us are ever given explicit permission to set and pursue specific positive goals. Rarely, if ever, do we hear, “You may.”

Granted, some of the Ten Commandments begin with “Thou Shalt,” but this is interpreted more in terms of being given an order rather than being granted permission. The difference is that when you give someone an order, you’re trying to shape their behavior without regard for their personal beliefs and aspirations. Sounds like a boss or a parent, doesn’t it? On the other hand, when you grant someone permission, you are allowing them and encouraging them to pursue a goal of their own choosing and of their own desiring.

More on this in the near future. . . .

I wish for you a very Merry Christmas and a restful and rewarding Holiday Season. Happy New Year and all the best therein!